Disagreements over household spending may be a major cause of marital
strife, but according to the results of a study just released by
Spectrem’s Millionaire Corner, 56 percent of LGBT households combine
their resources and make financial decisions together—and the end result
is that they’re happier than those who don’t.
27 percent of
poll responders said that they keep their bank accounts separate and
each partner makes their own financial decisions, while 17 percent said
they combine their assets but appoint one of them to make most of the
decisions regarding their budget.
According to a November 2013
study, also by Spectrem’s Millionaire Corner, couples who are married
are more likely to make decisions as a unit; 64 percent of respondents
reported doing so. Among heterosexual couples, 30 percent reported that
the husband is in charge of family finances.
Among LGBT couples
that don’t combine their assets, the most common reason given (64
percent) was to keep their financial independence. 55 percent said it
was due to income disparity, 35 percent attributed it to keeping tax
filing relatively simple, and 30 percent said it was because of
differing opinions on financial issues. Additionally, 22 percent said
they and their partner had different views regarding investments, and 19
percent cited different views on borrowing and credit.
Regardless of orientation, studies show that couples who combine their
assets are generally happier than those that choose not to—and even how
much is pooled seems to matter. The more money, percentage-wise, that is
dealt with jointly, the happier couples are, according to Spectrem.
Couples that each deal with their own finances were revealed to be the
least happy.
The results of a survey by the American Institute
of CPAs showed that financial issues are also the biggest source of
friction between partners, even more so than work, household chores, or
social life troubles. The conflict cited most often, among 58 percent of
correspondents, was whether an expense is a “need” or a “want.”
“A couple working together (fiscally) does make things easier,” said
San Franciscan Douglas Shepard, who lives with his girlfriend. “Even if
accounts are kept separate, as we do, we make a number of fiscal choices
together.”
For those couples actively looking to avoid the
typical relationship pitfalls, the results of a 2012 Millionaire Corner
study suggest that prior to marrying or other such commitment, couples
make the effort to sit down together to compare their views on finances,
outline their expectations, and explain their goals. 38 percent of
respondents advised taking advantage of premarital counseling services,
and waiting to have children until the couple feels they are financially
steady. Another 33 percent said that couples should find out one
another’s credit scores.
Only 32 percent recommended combining assets above all else.
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